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I would imagine that it's difficult finding a partner at your age. It's hard enough for us older folks. And from what I've seen of the personals, most of them aren't very promising.

Still, may I make a suggestion? Vampires have feelings, just like non-vampires. They usually don't want to be seen as mere objects of sexual fantasy. Take your post and substitute the words "Black" or Black culture" for every vampire reference. Doesn't sound too appealing, does it? In fact it would sound like the skin color is more important than the person. I doubt that's what you mean, but there you are.

Also, besides blood, what do you have to offer? What are your interests? As a black woman, I'm more likely to answer a personals ad that mentions the writer's qualities and what kinds of interests he or she hopes I have, rather than an ad that says, "I've always fantasized about Black women." I like to feel that this person will think I'm special. I also want to know that we'll have something to talk about, other than the new line of makeup that Iman's put out, or how deeply I tan.

When I look at vampire ads, I look for ones that talk about musical interests, a desire (or not) to have children, food preferences. Just because someone has their fantasy about being seduced by a vampiress with pointed fingernails who keeps them in a dungeon and bleeds them, doesn't mean I want to fulfill it. Besides, that adds up to one night, not a life, or even a month of good times. Besides, it's a rather selfish fantasy. I don't see anything in there about wining and dining the vampire who is going to do all this seduction work. I don't see anything that indicates that my paramour is going to drink wine and lay off certain foods so that his or her blood will be sweeter for me. And I certainly don't see anything that indicates this person is going to buy the goofy outfits and fangs that I'm supposed to wear all the time, or supply the scalpels and sharps containers (funny how practicality rarely comes into these vampire fantasies).

I'd advise that you lurk here for awhile and find out what vampires are really like. We're very different from the books.

      ~ Widow Noire, 17 January 2000

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BE PATIENT FOR RESPONSES! Not everyone has the time to go through the personals on a daily basis. If you want a fast response, you'll have BETTER luck placing an advert in your local newspaper, particularly if you can deal with S&M or bloodfetishists. (If you don't know what S&M is, you're *probably* too young to place a newspaper personals advert, since most of THOSE have certain minimum age requirements.)

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